IS he the one?

Too many times I've watched women become more consumed by the idea of marriage and the wedding than the actual relationship itself. As much as it might be exciting to plan out your special day or even consider the idea of spending your life with the man you can't stop thinking about, the ability to make a marriage last has a lot to do with if the two people in the relationship can get on one accord. Disagreements can morph from petty battles to all out wars, and if a place of mutual compromise and understanding is never reached, the likelihood of happily ever after is bleak.

Recently, I traveled to Las Vegas...

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During my stay and even on the retuning flight, I observed several married couples bickering. Listening in on the conversations, their arguments seemed unimportant, yet their unwillingness to compromise was probably based on differences in views, values, and behaviors that have never been addressed or resolved. Before you say "I do," it is essential to take an honest assessment of both yourself and your partner to identify where potential problems may arise within the marriage. Sometimes, this process occurs during premarital counseling, but by that time, so much planning has already gone into the wedding that couples may be reluctant to slow down the pace despite any issues that have surfaced. Getting to know your differences prior to the engagement stage could prove beneficial in your efforts to confirm if he's the one for you (or if you're the one for him).

How do you start your evaluation? What is important to know in advance? Check out this list of 100 questions to ask before you get married. You may find other questions you want to add while conversing with your mate, but this list is a good starting point.

100 Questions